The Big Day!
Posted by Mikki on Mar 12 2006 at 05:21 pm | Tagged as: Riding, Horse Leadership
Okay, I spent several days comparing the picture in the catalog, the pictures we took of Valentine all tacked up when we met him, and every other picture of a horse with bridle on I could find, and decided that today was the day.
I finally rode my horse, by myself.
First, we had to remember how to put the saddle on. It took a long time, but I’m pretty confident we got that right. It stayed on the whole time, so that must be a good sign.
The bridle was another story. I did the best I could, but I’m not confident at all that it was right. Valentine was so good and patient while I tried every combination with those straps that I could think of. I think he was annoyed by all the giggling, though.
Once the bridle was looking as close to right as I could get it, and the bit was adjusted pretty well, we maneuvered Valentine over to the tack room, which has a foot-high step up, so I could get on. Then Bill led us out to the pasture, and it was time.
Was that a wild ride! There are a few factors that came into play here. Valentine’s former owner hadn’t been riding him regularly, and we hadn’t ridden him at all in the month we had him. We were using tack that was all new to him. He is only 5 years old – a “teenager.” And, probably most importantly, I’m a total greenhorn and he knows it. So he spent the whole time I was on him trying to get me off. He ran under trees. He brushed up against the barn. He charged up to the barbed wire fence. He ran to the low point of the fence at the corner of our property, where I thought for a split second that he was going to jump it! He ignored every command but “whoa” and was slow to respond to that one.
The good news is, nothing he tried worked. I managed to stay on the whole time, and didn’t get off until I was ready.
Can’t wait to do that again…
I loved “The Big Day”! It made me laugh. Why? Because I can relate to being all thumbs when putting on the bridle, and also wondering whether or not I put the saddle on right. I have ridden quite a few times before getting “Seeker”, but that was years ago. Every time I went to a farm to ride, the owner would bridle and saddle the horses up for me. So I didn’t learn how to do it myself. Yes, I watched him, but actually doing it is a different story. I guess practice makes perfect!
Hi Bill!
I am new to your site and I just love it! Thanks for all the work that goes into something like this. I am a very new horse owner. “Seth” will be delivered on Saturday to a stable where he will be kept until I get my fence up after the ground thaws. Anyway I was wondering if you “fitted” your saddle. I have been reading a lot to get ready for Seth’s arrival and one thing that has been emphasized to me is getting the right saddle so it fits both Seth and myself. I bought a used saddle at a fund raiser for hoofed animals and person there helped me with it, but I have to wait to try it on Seth and then buy the appropriate pad or blanket to make sure it fits Seth correctly. If you did that then I was wondering if you have any pointers for me.
Be careful you guys! Although the story is amusing, this story could have also ended with injuries for you, your horse, or both. Do you have a riding instructor nearby for lessons? I’ve owned, showed and have been riding for 20 years, and I STILL take lessons — you can always improve no matter how great your riding skills may be. I’m happy you are proud horseowners, but it might be best to take lessons so both you and your horse are confident and safe. good luck!
If the horse is only 5 years old, and hasn’t been ridden very much, it would have been a good idea to lunge him first. Just lunging him for about 15 minutes before you ride can help settle him down, get him used to focusing on you and not the other stuff around you and it can also calm him down and take away any extra energy that your horse has. I know from experince that it is possible for a horse to have too much energy. Lunging is also a great way to teach your horse things that you find hard to teach him when you are ridding your horse.
And I agree with gin, you should have someone with you who is experinced with horses when you ride. There is always something to improve on. And it is alot more safe.
Good Luck with your horses